Kingsley Moyo,

MAMFT, CCC

Owner & Clinical Director

Hi, I'm Kingsley, a Counselling Therapist that works with individuals and couples who feel stuck and need more in life.

I get it, sometimes things don’t work but yours has gone a little longer than usual. Perhaps you're grappling with sexual pain, trauma, shame coupled with performance anxiety, erectile dysfunction, low sexual desire and mismatched sexual desires with your partner. And sometimes, it just seems like your partner doesn’t quite grasp how sexually disconnected you are and how deep your loneliness runs or how raw your pain feels.

Maybe it’s co-parenting, the same old argument loop and communication and/or betrayal (infidelity) in your relationship - the pain has been following you for some time now, leaving you feeling disconnected from yourself, and your partner and maybe even contemplating separation. Or no relationship seems to work for you, and you wonder what am l doing wrong? Am I not enough?

And let's not forget that your mental health worsens from attachment issues, relationships, childhood experiences and trauma. Living life fully has been hard; it now all feels like a stage act.

I’m still with you, and l know things don't always work, but yours has taken longer. And here you are….

Available Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Thursdays & Fridays. Sessions are available virtually & in-person.

The shortest path to enjoying your life is discovering yourself.

My therapeutic approach is non-judgmental and sex-positive so you can feel secure and understood creating a safe space for you. Within this space, we'll uncover patterns and blockages, helping you move past them by providing tools and resources that go beyond our therapeutic sessions. Here, we also examine and explore your past and present sexual experiences and relationships with genuine curiosity. Why? To help you decipher the unwanted repetitive patterns, to move you from functional to exceptional relationships or simply to move your sex life to the next level.

I’ve had comprehensive Sex Therapy training to help individuals and couples work through self esteem, performance anxiety, sexual trauma and intimacy concerns. use EMDR and Somatic Experiencing which both evidence-based methods to guide individuals through the maze of trauma and towards healing.

I’ve also delved deep into specialized training to best work with individuals and couples: from the Gottman Method, which delves into the intricacies of couples' dynamics, to addiction betrayal & recovery, affairs, trauma, and even domestic violence. Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy which helps couples heal from emotional wounds and help create healthy cycles of connection and Internal Family Systems (IFS) to help individuals overcome shame, regulate emotionally and develop healthy copying strategies.

PROFESSIONAL DEGREES

  • Currently pursuing a Doctor of Clinical Psychology (PsyD) - CalSouth University.

  • Master of Arts in Marital and Family Therapy - Northcentral University

  • BA Religious Studies - Burman University

  • Diploma of Applied Psychology and Counselling (specializing in Professional Counselling) - Kelowna College of Professional Counselling

PROFESSIONAL AFFILIATIONS

  • American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT)

  • Canadian Association for Marriage & Family Therapy

  • The Gottman Referral Network (GRN)

PROFESSIONAL TRAINING & EXPERIENCE

  • Comprehensive Sexology: Sex Therapy Diploma

  • Gottman Method — Level 3; Couples & Addiction Recovery; Treating Affairs & Trauma/PTSD, and Domestic Violence.

  • PREPARE-ENRICH for premarital counselling

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)

  • Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy—All levels (Externship & Core Skills)

  • Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR Trauma Therapy)

  • Somatic Experiencing (Trauma Therapy) - Beginner Level 1-3

  • Somatic Experiencing (Trauma Therapy) - Intermediate Level 1-3

  • Gottman Leader (Seven Principles of Making marriage Work)

 

SPECIALIZATION

  • Infidelity & Betrayal

  • Sexual Trauma

  • PTSD & Complex Trauma

  • Couples Intimacy Concerns

  • Couples Counselling

  • Sex Therapy

  • Christian Counselling

  • Sex addiction/Compulsive Behaviour

APPROACHES IN THERAPY

  • EMDR for Trauma

  • Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy

  • Gottman Couples Method

  • Trauma-Informed care

  • Attachment Theory

  • Somatic Experiencing (Trauma Therapy)

Whatever it is, how you tell your story can make all the difference.

At the heart of many people, there lies a delicate dance between joy and pain, a dance often overshadowed by shame, guilt, overwhelm and hopelessness surrounding sex and sexuality. I've witnessed the pain of individuals and couples grappling with feelings of neglect and unmet needs. Relationships eroding into spaces of resentment.

It's witnessing this transformation – where vibrant connections diminish into quiet despair – that drove me to become a sex and relationship therapist. To help individuals heal from shame, trauma and the hurt that comes from broken relationships from childhood to now. Let’s make this your time to heal.

We are here to create a space where you feel safe discussing your sexual fears, relationship anxieties, shame, hopes and ambitions.